After a few years of a very strange dating world, a lot of people are returning to their dating lives again and trying to find that seductive spark that draws the people of their dreams together.

Like a lot of romantic and sexual matters, seduction is best when you do not overthink it, and the way to get into a person’s mind, heart and pants is as much about how you see yourself as it is about technique, posture, dress or anything else.

Here are some top tips to get into your most seductive mindset and have the confidence to snag the man, woman or enby that has caught your eye.

Be Yourself (But Turn The Volume Up)

The most vibrant, beautiful and sexy person you can be is yourself, and confidence is one of the most potent weapons of seduction out there.

If you are comfortable with who you are and what you want, people are magnetised to your charisma and it will come off in any conversations you have before the lingerie set comes off.Speaking of sexy underwear, though.

Dress To Impress Yourself

Whilst dressing sexily will invariably draw eyes, the only person you need to look to impress is yourself, and the first step is to dress in a way so smouldering you could kiss yourself.

Sometimes it is about wearing the dress that you feel suits you the most, sometimes it is about wearing something that feels good underneath and makes your heart race for someone to rip your clothes off and reveal what’s underneath.

Tell Them What You Want 

Once it gets to a point where they seem interested, feel free to take off the shackles and let them know, in a teasing sort of way, what you want. If you are attracted to someone, there is little sexier than hearing what they want to do and it gets the mind racing.