The Safest Sex There Is. 5 Tips for a Better Wank.

Masturbation is something we all do, and if we don’t, we should! Not only does it feel amazing, but it’s good for your health, relieving stress and helping you to relax!

So how can we all get the best out of masturbation, read on for some simple tips for anyone!!

1: Lube It Up Baby!

Using lube will not only help with the slip and slide, and your rhythm as you start, but it also adds to the sensation. With a better feel and an increased chance of orgasmic explosion, lube will add to your pleasure.

For the vulva: Try a sensation lube, to warm, cool or tingle, all adding to the feelings and sensitivity.

For the penis: Use either a masturbation cream, that starts solid, but turns to an oil as it warms, so as you get hotter, the lube gets slicker. Or if you want something slick for your stick, try a little silicone lube for super slip and slide.

2: Watch Some Porn!

Watching an erotic film is a great way to explore taboos and fantasise, stimulating your mind and allowing some escapism as you pleasure yourself.

We can all get porn on our smartphones these days but playing a DVD through your TV not only gives you a bigger picture, but also frees up both hands to do more exploring. So, close the curtains, slip in a disc, slip of your clothes, and enjoy the flick!

Remember, R18 DVDs are still available instore.

3: Use a Toy!

Adding a toy to the mix takes the masturbation up a level, and by adding vibration, suction or texture, that solo play turns in to an orgy of excitement.

Masturbation toys for the penis are designed to recreate the sensation on another body, so instead of feeling your hand, you feel them. Toys are available that also create a vacuum or suction feeling, giving depth and feeling to the already amazing wank going on. And don’t forget to add extra sensations through prostate stimulation.

Masturbation for people with a vulva, the first question is, do you just wat to stimulate one area, so either internal or external; or do you want to do both!

Clitoral stimulation can be done through vibration or Air-Pulse, with Bullets, Wands and Clitoral Suction toys being the most popular. For internal look at a curved vibrator for G-Spot pleasure, and for both, you can’t go wrong with a Rabbit! Adding sensation lubes or serums to the clit will also increase sensitivity and take the climax further than before.

4: Make it Last!

There is nothing sweeter than an orgasm after a long play. Edging is the term used when you are almost at climax but stop yourself at the last minute. How? Well you will need to find out the best way for you, but a firm grip, a change of position, or simply stopping at the right time will do the trick, before you slowly start the climb again.

This constant teasing will pay of dividends in the end. Do it for as many times, or as long as you can, and then open the flood gates for an orgasm of epic proportions, and you can than me later!

There are also some toys that are designed for male edging, where the head of the penis sits inside the unit, and is gently massaged through vibration, for as long as you can stand!

5: Let’s Get Loud!

 Ok, so maybe not if your flat mate or the kids are home, but when the place is all yours, turn up your volume. And I don’t mean with a J’Lo download! Remember, sex is the most natural thing in the world, we all do it, and we need to celebrate it, so embrace the noise. Do you think the birds and bees are quiet when they do it, nope!

So why should we? Letting your inner animal take over now and again; and getting vocal adds to the stimulation and makes you feel alive with excitement. Let’s face it we shouldn’t have to stifle an orgasm now should we!

Well, that should keep you all going for a little, and remember, have fun, and never be afraid to try new things!

Love Polly.