Giving a Blow Job

Men love receiving a blow job but there’s a lot more to it than just sucking cock.

There are various ways to give good head, so experiment with technique and position!

Getting started... 

1. The most important thing is making sure you are both comfortable...there is nothing worse than having to stop half way through a blow job because your neck is sore and you can‘t keep going. Experiment and find out what works for you both. He can stand, kneel, lie on the bed, or he may prefer that you lie down.

2. Decide if you are going to use a condom. If you are, put it on right at the start. It can be more erotic if you put it on him. Use it as a tease and caress him at the same time.

3. Gently start caressing his penis with your hand. Tease him gently so he knows the best is yet to come. Tease his balls and penis with your hands, caressing lightly and then adding more pressure. Starting from his anus, gently rub your fingers all the way to the top of the penis.

4. Now start using your mouth. Vary the way you touch and lick him. Lick his balls all over and then lick up and down his penis. Most men want to be licked everywhere, not just the top of the penis.

Find his hot spot... 

5. Find the spots that he seems to like the most, and vary the way you lick it. Put the penis in your mouth and lick it all over with your tongue. Keep caressing his balls with your hands - he will tell you if he doesn‘t like it. Keep an eye out for his body language. From the noises he makes, you will be able to tell if he likes what you are doing. All guys are different; some love having their balls touched with varying degrees of pressure.

6. Take a break from sucking on the penis and lick him, starting from right under the balls to right to the top of the penis. Keep using your hands to play with him.

7. While licking his balls and penis, try giving him a hand job. Keep varying what you do. Touch lightly and then with more pressure, lick lightly and then with more pressure. Don‘t just keep your mouth sucking on his penis. If you keep your mouth on his penis the entire time, you are bound to get jaw ache.

When he is close to finishing... 

8. When he is close climaxing, you will know from his body language, or he will tell you. There are different ways to finish off. Some guys love it when their partner swallows their semen. However, some people don’t like it and there are other options. He can ejaculate on your body, or you can finish him off with your hand. Everyone is different, so find out what works for both of you and you’ll have an amazing and satisfying experience..

Add some spice....

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